DS Story: Niggle

30 Nov 2025 03:10 pm
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Title: Niggle
Author: Grey/Grey853
Fandom: Due South
Pairing: Benton Fraser/Ray Kowalski
Rating: Explicit
Tags: male slash, explicit language, explicit sexual content, casefic, alternate universe-canon divergent
Word Count: 14,773
Summary: Fraser has a tendency to niggle and live in his own world. Ray gets frustrated. Can they find a way to work together without driving one another crazy?

Link:
https://archiveofourown.org/works/75027586

Snippet:

″I think it’s time we talked about what happened earlier today.″

Ray sighed, wishing like hell they could just forget about it. ″Do we have to? We were having such a good time, eating and just talking about last night’s game. You haven’t niggled once since you got here.″

″Niggled?″

″You know, niggle, that thing you do where you question everything I say. It’s where you argue about the stupidest stuff.″

″I have no idea what you’re talking about. We discuss things and often disagree, but that’s not niggling. That’s just having a conversation. I rather enjoy our discussions.″

″I’m not saying I don’t like how we’re able to give and take, but sometimes you go too far. This thing with the littering is a perfect example.″

″How so?″

Ray took a long swallow of his beer and then poured the rest down the sink. He had a feeling if he finished it, he’d be too loose and he didn’t want that. He had to keep control of his temper and his words. He wanted to say what he needed without revealing too much.

″Let’s have a seat and I’ll try to explain.″

″Very well.″

Fraser walked over and sat down all stiff and prissy.

Well hell. Ray knew what that meant. ″I didn’t mean to hurt your feelings.″

″You didn’t.″

″Did, too.″

″Well, how do you expect me to feel, Ray? You say that my conversational style is niggling, which by it’s very nature has a negative connotation. I’m at a loss. I had no idea you felt that way.″

″Look, I really don’t want to make you feel bad, but you’ve got to understand what I’m sayin’. You’ve got to rein in this zeal you’ve got to arrest any and everybody for the smallest infraction. That might work in a small town, but here it’ll just fill up the jails and get you blacklisted and me along with you.″

Fraser didn’t answer right away, but eventually said, ″It doesn’t work in small towns, either.″

″Say what?″

″My zeal, as you call it, has gotten me shunned more than once during my earlier assignments. It’s one of the reasons I’ve been reassigned so frequently.″
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SG1 Story "Bugs"

29 Nov 2025 01:33 pm
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Title: Bugs
Author: Grey/Grey853
Fandom: SG1
Pairing: Daniel Jackson/Jack O'Neill
Rating: Teen and up
Summary: Jack has a lot of explaining to do to get back into Daniel's good graces.
Tags: male slash, explicit language, romance
Word Count: 1,567
Link:
https://archiveofourown.org/works/74960746

Snippet:

″Why are you here, Jack?″

″I thought you might be hungry, that’s all.″

″Don’t give me that. Why are you here?″

Jack had the decency to blush slightly and glance away. He cleared his throat before he finally met Daniel’s eyes. ″I miss you.″

″You see me every day.″

″I see you, but I don’t ‘see’ you.″

″And who’s fault is that?″

Jack held his gaze, but shook his head. ″I don’t want to argue.″

″Neither do I.″ And Daniel realized that was the truth. As angry and upset as he’d been when Jack first called it off, he’d worked through that phase. At the present, he was just sad that his friend and lover had so casually thrown away such a good thing between them.

Seasonal Cards

30 Nov 2025 12:40 am
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It's that time of year again! Mine are more like New Year cards as I'm slow to start making them.

If you're on my card list but your mailing address has changed, let me know - replies to this post are screened.

And if you're not on my seasonal cards list and would like to be, also drop me a reply below, with your preferred postal name and address. I send them all over the world, so no worries about that.

Holiday love meme!

28 Nov 2025 12:25 pm
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I couldn't resist. I'm all for spreading more kindness around.

holiday love meme 2025
my thread here


(click on the banner and join in!)

Late spring - lush garden

28 Nov 2025 06:03 pm
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I was up early yesterday and it was lovely, so I decided to take some pics. It's all very lush as we've had a fair bit of rain, mixed with sunny days as hot as midsummer. I think it's going to be a hot one, this year. I tried to include slightly more panoramic shots this time to give you some idea of my small garden which is almost all in pots and wheelibeds, as my rented unit has largely concrete and asphalt around it. Click on each pic for full size.

pics under here )

Happy Thanksgiving!

27 Nov 2025 11:19 am
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3 turkeys in a yard

I hope the day treats you well, no matter what holiday shenanigans you are up to.

As for me, I'm keeping it simple. I'm wearing my fleece pajama pants, drinking tea, and watching all of the Night at the Museum movies.

Last year, it was all of the Indiana Jones movies and I think I'll shoot for all of the Ghostbuster Movies next year. We shall see.

I am resisting Christmas movies until December 20th. Christmas decorating started going up at Halloween, and that's just wrong.

Happy Thanksgiving!

p.s. This morning, I attempted to make cranberry sauce from scratch. It's going to be okay, much to my surprise. I made a mistake with the amount of water, put the sugar in at the wrong time, and basically boiled the crap out of it until it turned into something resembling cranberry sauce. Tastes like it should though. Must be a Thanksgiving miracle.

p.s.s. Where I live, we have high wind warnings and possible power outages looming throughout the day. So, I've charged up the laptop, the phone, my kindle, and have a power bank standing by.

It's a good day to stay inside and stay warm.
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Here on the eve of the national holiday celebrating thankfulness, I shall grumble, possibly a repeat, but one that always comes to mind when I cook a turkey.

There's an episode of Hawaii 5-0 where Mary, Steve's irresponsible sister, is trying to thaw a turkey with a blow dryer. Steve catches her and chides her for not being better organized and she apologizes/whines it's not her fault, whatever. (I should rewatch this episode, I don't recall how all the dialogue goes.)

But I'm just watching and thinking... that's not how you thaw a turkey. It's frozen from the inside. Blowing heat on the outside is pointless. You read the instructions that come with every turkey and follow the direction to run water into the middle. (Possibly it's a drip and I believe the water should be room temperature but don't quote me. I rarely need to do this.)

Totally, I could see as a reflection of Mary's character, that she doesn't move the turkey from the freezer to the refrigerator on the correct day for it to thaw naturally. I could even see that she doesn't read the flipping instructions and so tries the forced thawing wrong.

Though I had to wonder if the writer actually knows anything about thawing turkeys? Because *Steve* is the one who bothers me. A turkey that size should have been in Steve's refrigerator at least three days before the holiday. *Steve* is always presented as a good host and decent cook. Sure, he's more often seen at the barbecue, but he's also regularly carrying various bowls of side dishes, he knows his way around a kitchen. *Steve* should have noticed that the turkey wasn't thawing and asked. *Steve* should have told his sister to put down the hair dryer and get that bird under the tap. And Steve doesn't. I'd say maybe Steve is always supposed to have done fresh turkeys, except I've never even seen a fresh turkey in our grocery stores, they're always frozen. This scene is several seasons into the show and Steve is totally the guy who has been hosting holiday meals for his ohana.

STEVE IS A BETTER COOK THAN THIS SCENE SHOWS. And I assume that the writer isn't trying to imply that at all, because the writer either doesn't know how turkeys should be thawed or assumes that the audience won't think about it. Ha ha ha, look, Mary is screwing up again and Steve is being the annoyed big brother again, that's their sibling dynamic. Except I cook one turkey a year, every year for the last 20 or so years, and wow, it weirdly grated on me that *Steve* didn't know how to thaw a turkey.

I don't know how people who work in law enforcement watch cop shows, health people watch medical shows, etc. Those things must be full of procedures, etc., not being done correctly.

Ah, now I want to rewatch some Hawaii 5-0. McDanno rocks. And in summation, if you're ever going to cook a turkey, read the instructions! /weird grumble

books read

25 Nov 2025 07:09 pm
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I read a lot. Two to three books a week, plus fanfic. (I'm currently working on my SGA Santa assignments so I'm not reading quite as much fanfic right now.)

If you like sci-fi and action, I can recommend The Fold by Peter Clines and The Razor by J. Barton Mitchell.

Both are action-packed (should you be trying to write action scenes you might find it helpful) and have engaging, well-defined characters. The hero survives, which is important to me, at least.

It's damn hard to find good sci-fi. It's one of the reasons I'm thrilled (and nervous) about Stargate making a comeback after 14 frigging years.

I'm speculating that they'll do a New Teams First Experience through the gate scenario. In part because Hewlett suggested it many years ago as a screenplay, in part because Star Trek is doing Star Trek Academy, and in part because it lets all of the previous canon remain intact.

Or maybe they'll toss the spaghetti and see what sticks to the wall.

I remember my feelings with Sam Carter was sent to Atlantis. I was so nervous the writers were going to fuck it up. They didn't.

I have similar feelings about this new chapter of Stargate. *fingers crossed*

Blorbo from my crosswords!

26 Nov 2025 11:21 am
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Ok, so, I have a few basic games/apps I use on my iPad while listening to audiobooks or podfics, if I'm not doing art. This is partly as usually I seem to need another activity while listening, and partly as a way to keep my aging brain ticking over in various ways. Note that most have annoying ads which I either manage to avoid eg. by leaving the app smartly when I've solved the puzzle, or I get rid of by them paying the annual fee. These are:

Row of iPad icons, same as the apps described below.

  • Real Jigsaw - for spatial skills, pattern recognition, and as I upload art and photos I like (with a suitable level of intricacy) as the jigsaws.
  • Happy Colour - just basic colouring-in but there's a certain degree of attention and concentration needed to find all the damn little pale green bits numbered 115, etc. I like the mandalas and use a few as icons, also the silhouettes which are complex and have no lines marking colour patches, so are more of a surprise to complete.
  • Mah Jong - which bears no reaction to actual Mah Jong (I used to play that with friends and have a nice old set in a wooden box). Again, for pattern recognition.
  • Solitaire and FreeCell - I don't play them competitively or to beat prior scores, just to relax. I guess they use a number of cognitive skills.
  • Crosswords - I do one a day, for fun and to maintain and sometimes extend my vocabulary and word-finding. I make this manageable (hello, nominal dysphasia!) by using another app Wordplays that suggests answers to clues, plus internet searches for definitions, Rhymezone.com for synonyms, and gMaps for place names.
One thing with the crossword app (these are basic crosswords, not cryptics which I've never been able to do) is that you get used to the crossword maker's habits and favourite words. They like short 3-letter ones to fill in gaps, and one I've had to learn is "ani", for the clue "cuckoo".

And today, on tumblr, there she is! Ani from my crosswords!

Stocky black bird with a heavy bill, perched in a leafy tree.

What are your favourite things like this, to relax and pass the time? I should mention that I don't play any of the major games out there. I got into a Civilisation-like worldbuilding one for a while back in my thirties and became obsessed with it until it consumed a lot of my time. I've been kind of nervous about trying any since, even though I'm sure I'd love a lot of the visuals. Plus I have no interest in adding more layers of tech complexity to my life, like a high-powered gaming computer.

Updates

24 Nov 2025 08:25 pm
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I stepped down from my management position two weeks ago.

Read more... )

xkcd excels

25 Nov 2025 10:51 am
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The latest xkcd made me cry (in a good way). For some reason it was the Northern lights pic that did it.

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24 Nov 2025 11:29 am
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I bought myself a Christmas tree a week ago and put it up this weekend. I purposely got a 4' tree so I could decorate it easily. It barely comes up to my shoulders. I have it on the wet bar right now and my mom is giving me a small table to put it on. I plan on buying a 5' tree next year and putting this one in my room unless I have a two bedroom apartment and then I'll put it in my office.

Last week, we were told that B is being laid off come January 2. Then today, we were told that we have a new employee starting. And when you look at the org chart, there are two new names (the one introduced today and one other) under my manager's name. It looks like they're both located in India and this worries me that the whole company is being sent overseas but even if they're not, I fear I'm going to be let go next because the reason given for letting B go is that the company is downsizing.

The new person who was introduced today is replacing a member we lost last month (she was sent to a different team) which keeps us at six until B's last day. So, maybe the other new person is to keep us at six, which W has said she prefers?

Whatever the reason for this is, the optics look very bad considering that B is still here and she was included on the email about the new person!

I don't understand why my blood pressure is so high when it was in the normal range at the doctor on Thursday.

Holiday Cards!

22 Nov 2025 09:36 am
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It's already that time! I'll be starting on my holiday cards as soon as Thanksgiving is done. I begin with last year's list. If you'd like one or need to update your address, please let me know. Comments are screened. Reciprocation is nice but not required.
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Every year, we have a recs panel at ConStrict where mostly people rec TV shows, movies, and books, media on which fandoms are based, but every once in a while, someone will rec some random thing they think others might enjoy/find helpful/etc. In that spirit, I'm posting about Classical Stretch/Essentrics with Miranda Esmonde-White. There will be health TMI.

I had two attacks of sciatica and a herniated disc in 2020. Lockdown was a blessing for me, as I don't know that I could have walked from the parking lot to my cubicle every day. I was in bad shape, on heavy doses of gabapentin and doing physical therapy. I had a spinal steroid shot in the fall, which did squat, and we were talking about surgery when I retired at the end of the year. Not having to sit 9 hours a day instantly helped and I gradually recovered.

By 2023, I was better, though somewhat resigned to having back problems for the rest of my life, but thinking it was time to try yoga again. I checked out my local PBS station, and only found a chair yoga class, which didn't seem quite enough, but also this Classical Stretch show. Okay, stretching good, I'll give it a try.

This show has been a blessing for me. It's only 22 minutes, done in my living room with minimal equipment, not needing to change clothes, I've got no excuses to put it off. Honestly, I need these conditions.

It's stretching, often with exercises that use your own body weight to add strengthening. It's a little tai chi, yoga, ballet, but not really any of those. A lot is standing, some using a chair, some on the ground. My PBS is showing episodes from four different seasons, so though she definitely has some standard exercises, it also has a lot more variety than the weekly meetings with the physical therapist.

She focuses a lot on the spine, posture, alignment. She's very into stretching and strengthening, 'liberating' all your muscles. It's very 'whole body,' being aware of how all your muscles interact and the chains of muscles impact each other. Many episodes cover the whole body but a lot focus on individual areas, hamstrings, neck pain, etc. The exercises are easy to follow and do.

I have done an episode pretty much every day since 2023. I tapered down and eliminated the gabapentin entirely. I have taken no pain meds for a year or more now. I'm still conscious of my back and that herniated disc, trying to not sit for too long or in a bad position, but I have no back pain. NO. BACK. PAIN.

I have a friend who has had back surgery and I'm so grateful to have avoided that. Which is a combination of circumstances and not just this one show, but I really feel continuing to do this show will help me avoid more problems in the future.

It is an exercise show, she overpromises and says some annoying things (or maybe they've become annoying as I've heard them so often?) but I really do rec it, especially if you have back problems, but even if you don't and would like to avoid them. If your local PBS doesn't show it, some episodes are on YouTube and there is a separate Essentrics channel (though that costs, so last resort). This show has been great at helping my flexibility and mobility, and those are so essential in staying healthy, especially as we age. Try it!

Self-seeded plants in my garden

21 Nov 2025 12:07 pm
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For those of you who like my garden photos, I did a post to [community profile] common_nature featuring self-seeded plants in my garden that I enjoy. It's here.

Oh my heart

19 Nov 2025 07:54 pm
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And they better not screw this up.
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This article popped up somewhere on my feed yesterday, though it is from May. I'm rather amused that this author used Tom Holland's dance in the rain on LipSync Battle to talk about proper storm water management, but also impressed by the competent science of it all. Talk about a great attention grabber! Also, it made me rewatch Holland's performance, which I haven't for several years, and his dancing is worth revisiting. If you haven't seen it, I recommend it. (Link within the article.)

https://neorsd.medium.com/what-tom-hollands-historic-lip-sync-showcase-taught-us-about-stormwater-management-9dead8680143

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